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Ragnar Ólafsson – house concert, Kraków; June 8th, 2017

The second house concert in Kraków started out a little slow, but in the end it was unbelievable and he declared it his favorite one yet. I enjoyed it very much too. It was the perfect mixture of dramatic, relaxed, sad and fun with a wonderful audience that made him feel welcome from the start. It was as if this was exactly where I belonged that night and I would not have wanted to be anywhere else.

I was up early, feeling well rested, relaxed for a while longer and then set out to explore Kraków. I didn’t have any specific plans, just drifted from place to place, walking wherever it looked nice and enjoyed the sunshine. Poland has been treating me to nice weather and it was another beautiful day. I had ice cream for lunch, walked more, relaxed at my hotel and went for the first warm dinner in almost a week. A very yummy vegan burger. Eventually it was time to catch a tram to the venue. When I arrived, another woman got there at the same time. Turns out that was Alicia, the singer for the night. She did not know which doorbell to ring and Bartek was not answering his phone so I called Ragnar, asking him to let her in. It was funny: “I have a singer here who would like to rehearse with you.” 🙂 He came down and opened the door, I took a walk, the listened to them sing through the open window. After half an hour or so, Alicia came down and let me in.

The apartment was nice and the hosts were lovely. It is amazing how at all the house shows the hosts let strangers into their home and their lives for a few hours and it is always wonderful. This one had a great vibe from the start, I felt right at home. Chatted with Ragnar for a bit, who was somewhat hungover, but generally in a good mood. Took a look around, sampled some food and settled down on the floor near the stage. The place filled up and we all sat comfortably when Bartek announced the concert was about to start. He gave quite a long speech of which the only word I understood was “Viking”. 😀

From the very first song I noticed how quiet and attentive this audience was. There were kids here too, but they all sat with their parents and listened – I had not expected that. <3 The audience was more silent than the birds outside. This time, when asking if we liked stories the answer was loud and clear “Yes!”. We got lots of hem that night and again I heard a few things I had not heard before. <3 I found it really interesting that he had viewed writing music as a craft before this album and only now learned that it the best music comes from the heart not the brain. He described how the songs just sort of “downloaded from cosmos” and wrote subconsciously. He ended up with 22 songs to chose from. I was immediately thinking “Outtakes!” That was a surprise to me, because all the songs I love sound like they come from the heart.

For the first time since Poznan there were some people in the audience who spoke Icelandic. Icelanders even as I understood. Luckily it was only a handful of them so we stuck to English and useful Polish words about “another drink” and “last drink”. 😉 ‘War’ was beautiful and the present baby made a few “do do” sounds in the background which fit surprisingly well. “I have a surprise for you guys. I am not alone” *laughter* “there are others like me” *more laughter*. He invited Alicia on stage to sing ‘Dozen’ with him and it worked well if a bit shaky at times. She seemed quite nervous. No reason though, the audience was very appreciative.

We got to sing again on ‘Relations’ and hell yes we did. 😀 The longest stories were the ones for ‘Every Brick in Manhattan’ and ‘The Cannon’. It’s the perfect point in time too, about one third into the show. “I have strange ideas and then I make a song about it. This is how we get away with our strange ideas” 😀 The songs were mostly sung a bit lower than usual. I liked it. Before ‘The Cannon’ he asked us to imagine John and his hippie bus. I easily can of course. One funny part of the long story was how he would leave the window open on the bus and people would throw weed or cigarettes in there. 😀 The description of picking out gun because it was black always makes people laugh. New thing I learned: They were shooting at rocks. As I am writing this I think that it might be weird if you only read this one blog post, because I never tell the whole story, but I don’t want to keep repeating things, so I only pick out bits and pieces, hoping it is still interesting.

Ragnar told us the concert was sponsored by Ola’s (our host) home made wine. He told us he was hungover and needed to beat it, but the explanation was a bit more poetic. I’ve never heard the expression “having the hair of the dog” before, but it might be useful some times. Next was ‘Urges’, immediately followed by ‘Petals’. Stepping back on stage, Alicia told us it was a very difficult song. She managed though. 🙂

We learned that ‘Scar’ was supposed to be the last song on the album, because it has such a big build up, but then he wanted to end it on a depressing note, so he added ‘Red Wine’ after it. It still works perfectly as the last song of the set though. 🙂 Ragnar tried to walk of stage after it, but we would not let him, not only calling out for more, but one woman actually raising her arms and stopping him from walking past her. 😀

Someone immediately asked Ragnar to play something Icelandic and he promised to think about it. First it was ‘Bravery’ though, complete with a story about riding motor bikes and camping in the Rockies where you pee in a circle to keep out the grizzly bears. The song was written on a cliff and to illustrate that he quoted ‘The Lion King’. Then he put all the power he had into the song. It was so good and so much fun to watch him doing it.

Then, the biggest surprise of the night followed. After explaining how he is the piano player in Árstíðir and cannot really do these songs on guitar he decided to do an a cappella song for us, ‘Heyr, hymna smiður’. First though, he gave us a little background of the song starting with a recollection of singing it in the train station in Wuppertal and ending with a quite funny description of Vikings waging wars with rocks because they did not have any other weapons. The author of the song had his head split open during one of those and wrote the song as he lay dying. I thought it was way too funny to set the mood, but again the audience proved they could listen. He only sang the lead vocal with some added echo and he did it beautifully. You could have heard a pin drop and it left me in complete awe. <3 People even stayed silent for a moment after he was done, before they started to clap.

“I’ll play you the last song” “Awwwwww!”. Someone offered a deal that we could sing something if he sang some mote. he tested us, sang “Oh” and we immediately replied “oh-ho-ho”. Perfect. He then wondered which song to play, started “Every breath you take”, realized he could not do it, so he went for ‘Where the wild Roses grow’ and we managed a great sing along too. There were some beautiful voices in the room. 🙂 When introducing ‘Sleep now’ he said it was not as creepy as Nick Cave’s song, but almost and that he hoped people who wrote murder ballads didn’t actually need to kill people but just used their imagination. He joked that he wondered if we’d still wanted to talk to him after seeing the video for ‘Sleep now’. 😉 The song finally ended the show and with a happy sigh and lots of clapping I said goodbye to show #10.

Had to go and hug Ragnar afterwards, because it had been so much fun and a show that I thought was just gonna be pretty standard urned into something completely different. I had loved it. We talked for a while, sharing our views on the show, hugged a few more times and I finally said goodbye and goodnight until the next time.

pictures of this concert

Urges tour Poland: 10 gigs down, 4 to go. Next stop: Przybysławice

Setlist

More will come along
Wine
War
Dozen
Relations
Every Brick in Manhattan
The Cannon
Urges
Petals
Scar

Bravery
Heyr, hymna smiður
Where the wild Roses grow
Sleep now

Kids with rattles, shots and Bon Jovi

Ragnar Ólafsson – house concert, Kraków; June 7th, 2017

After Cieszyn, the first concert in Kraków was the second house gig where I did not make it on the list of guest when I applied. Luckily, Ragnar decided he wanted me to be there and invited me anyway. <3 Thank you so much, I would not have wanted to miss either of them. This one took place in a beautiful apartment under the roof amongst an excited audience and took a turn towards funny in the end that I had not expected at all. A wonderful concert.

Getting to Kraków was easy too and I even had some time for sightseeing before making my way to the venue. The best part of it all was that there are two gigs here so for the first time in over a week I get to stay in the same place for more than a day. No alarm tomorrow, no bags to pack, no traveling. 🙂 Arrived early, waited, took a walk or two around the block, hoping I wasn’t in the wrong place. I wasn’t. More people showed up and we had to go all the way upstairs to get there. We were greeted at the door by the hosts. they had made a huge effort, selling real printed tickets and they had posters too. Their daughter excitedly stamped everyone’s arm as we walked in. 🙂

It was a gorgeous apartment with a nice view and space for lots of people. The stage was set up by a window, with people gathering all around on couches, chairs and the floor. There were lots of kids around and thus, despite all the adults listening closely, it never really got quiet. The kids were running back and forth, sometimes watching for a while, then going off again. Everyone had fun though and that is the main thing. 🙂

By now, the setlist is fixed, because it works well this way. Hence, no more surprises for me before the encore. That doesn’t mean I am enjoying it any less though. Once I know what is happening in terms of the song order I can concentrate on other things, take in what is happening around me, listen for differences in the songs and stories. I don’t think I have ever seen so many concerts in such a short amount of time and it is really making me happy to be able to do this. I also know how lucky I am. 🙂

‘Wine’ was great that night, felt even more emotional than usual. I loved it. Ragnar told us about the album, saying he hoped we were prepared for hearing a lot of love songs. “if it gets too emotional just grab somebody and…” “And what?” came the question. “I’m just setting up the scene here, you have to use your imagination…” He gave some ideas than added “improvise”. 😀 People laughed it that so it was a good contrast to the sad songs.

For ‘Dozen’ Natalia Lechwar was asked to join him on stage. Before singing she had to confirm he pronounced her name right. She was also a great singer. I don’t know how Bartek finds these people, but so far they have all done the job very well. 🙂 She talked to me after the show and I learned that she is studying to be a classical singer. Wow.

Ragnar was in a talkative mood. Even when he taught us the “oh” part in ‘Relations’ he said he was gonna do it “very dramatic, very heartbroken” or sometimes more like “depressed and surprised” and gave examples of how each sounded. Then he gave an example of what we should sing and the hosts reacted with “You’re kidding me” and “Can we do the other part? It sounds easier”. Everyone laughed and then everyone sang anyway and it was indeed beautiful (most of the time anyway ;))

This audience said they liked good stories and thought it was funny that Manhattan looks a bit like Łódź. It was a great rendition of ‘Every Brick in Manhattan’ too. Quite a few people in the room knew Árstíðir and someone even named ‘The Cannon’ as her favorite. The story was really long this time including a long description of Ragnar’s best friend. It all fit too, at least as far as I can judge. We also learned that every time he goes to the US he comes back with a few songs. People asked questions too and wanted to know if he still liked cinnamon after the whiskey. The answer was that it brings the wrong memories. What followed was the best version of ‘The Cannon’ on this tour so far. <3

We got a long story about the Polish wedding Bartek, Magda and Ragnar went to after the Dłutówek concert that included hearing about a tradition where the groom hides his shoe and whoever finds it has to sing which was why Ragnar got to sing Bon Jovi with the wedding band. He also said when he saw the pictures in the morning wondering who the drunk Icelander was that thought he was Bon Jovi. Bartek let on he would not have believed the story of all the metal bands if he had not seen that. 😀 I could totally imagine. I have seen that side of him a few times.

‘Vegetate’ followed ‘Urges’ again so we would not get too depressed. The combination of the two works really well I think. He told us how, even in feeling sorry for himself and being he had a little voice inside his head telling him to cheer up and that it was just a first world problem and therefore ‘Vegetate’ was born. It all lead to joking about vodka speaking to him instead of the little voice inside his head. So we learned that the guy in the song really has nothing to complain about because it is not that bad, but lives life like a vegetable. “You know, you just sit there”. 😀

‘Petals’ was lovely. Natalia did it really well too. Considering they only meet an hour or two before the show, these local musicians are even more amazing. I thought it would take much more time to work out the details of such a performance. I loved how quiet and attentive the audience was during the songs and how active in between. It felt different at times, because there were always kids running around, but they were the only ones who did not sit still and listen.

The intro to ‘Scar’ lead to a brief discussion because someone did not agree with “five minutes of listening to Banjo is too much”. They agreed that it is a good instrument, just should not be used to much. This way, even the most dramatic and depressing songs can lead to amusement.

Yes, we certainly wanted more and got ‘Bravery’ first, which two of the present kids accompanied with rattles. They did it well too – it totally fit. We got a nice long story about where the song was written too. The routine was sitting down with a bottle of liquor at night and writing song. For this it involved  Vanilla Jägermeister. I didn’t know or need to know something like that existed. It sounds revolting. 😉 Ragnar also had to go busking to earn money to drive back to Denver for his flight home. Apparently his travel guitar was treated badly but survived the trip. It must be a good guitar then. 🙂

After that he explained murder ballads, playing part of ‘Where the wild Roses grow’, asking if we wanted to hear it, but I was the only one who said yes, so he wasn’t convinced, but then decided to play it anyway, before finally playing his own murder ballad ‘Sleep now’. Both were fun and not enough for us yet. We all clapped and cheered until he came back.

Someone called for Bon Jovi and he replied “be careful what you wish for”, then asked us if we wanted it. Some people agreed, but it required shots of vodka so he had one and tried to make us vote on “sad sad song” vs Bon Jovi. “That’s a sentence I did not expect to say ever in my life.” The reply from the audience “You know we’re gonna vote both.” and “Sing a sad Bon Jovi song”, but he felt there was no such thing. I disagree, but I didn’t want to start that discussion. Anyway, he started with ‘Red Wine’ and despite a lot of ruckus in the background thanks to the children, it worked surprisingly well.

“Did I really promise you a Bon Jovi song?” More shots were in order to get in the mood for what was coming so I got out the Salmiakki and we had a little debate if it was better than Topas or not. We disagreed. It did the trick though. Last song was ‘Living on a Prayer’ then, complete with walking around and asking us to sing along. He also forgot the start of the second verse and naturally I had a blackout too. Dang, I thought I knew that one. It was a ton of fun though, just because it was so unexpected and not taken seriously at all. I do like Bon Jovi, but it didn’t bother me that he was making fun of them. It was way too hilarious not to love it. <3

I stayed a while, had shots with both Bartek and Ragnar, tried some food, chatted and finally sad goodbye. Just made it in time for the last tram and stumbled into bed, comfortably drunk. A great night, more tomorrow! 😀

pictures of this concert

Urges tour Poland: 9 gigs down, 5 to go. Next stop: Kraków

Setlist

More will come along
Wine
War
Dozen
Relations
Every Brick in Manhattan
The Cannon
Urges
Vegetate
Petals
Scar

Bravery
Where the wild Roses grow
Sleep now

Red Wine
Livin on a Prayer