I’m bound to follow oceans, I know no other way

Grace Petrie – The Phoenix, Exeter; March 22nd, 2024

The concert in Manchester was not my first Grace Petrie show, but the one, where afterwards, I felt the need to see her again as soon as possible, preferably on that same tour. I dates and realized it was absolutely possible to see the last two gigs of the tour in Exeter and Bristol so I booked everything right away. It was such a fun show and I met some lovely people too.

After a fun evening in London I took a bus to Exeter and found myself at The Phoenix on March 22nd. As usual, I got there too early, went for a walk, returned and started chatting with a few more early birds. One of them, J. handed me a little paper bag filled with candy and some lovely affirmations as a random act of kindness. So sweet! Shortly before the doors opened, a queue formed and I got a great spot at the front, surrounded by great people. Someone behind us handed everyone miniature plastic ducks and someone next to me put a bunch of them on a stage monitor “all ducks in a row!” ;)I was already having fun and the show hadn’t even started yet.

First up was Gabi Garbutt, who had not played in Manchester. Grace came out to announce her and told us that she knew we would be respectful, “because only Tori scum talk during support acts”. Gabi was fantastic. I loved her songs. As far as I understood the lyrics, I really liked them and the melodies were beautiful.

She started with ‘Lady Matador’, and told us the next song, ‘Bad Boy Bird’ was about cockerels, which she regards as misunderstood creatures. Someone already knew the song and yelled “Yeah”, when it was announced, singing along too. It was a great song.

‘Notes from the Undergrowth’ was about supporting people with depression and meeting them where they are at. It was my favorite of the set. 🙂 Gabi spoke about what an honor it was to join Grace on tour and how she was going to miss it. “Same,” I thought.

‘Ganet’s Journey’ was beautiful and I enjoyed the rest of the set too. Halfway through, someone handed her a duck, which she gratefully accepted and put in her pocket. ‘Panic’ was about the sensory disorientation during a panic attack and ‘New Kind of Weather’ about solidarity within and among all communities in the current climate. She ended with ‘This Higher Place’ and we even got a little sing-along going. A great kick off for the show.

Setlist

Lady Matador
Bad Boy Bird
Notes from the Undergrowth
Genet’s Journey
Your Blues
Panic
New Kind of Weather
This Higher Place

Soon after Gabi left, Grace was back to announce Molly and we greeted her with loud cheers. She let us know how thrilled she was “to share this person with you tonight”.

When Molly stepped up, someone yelled “I love you” and she had to find out who it was. She accepted a duck too, but joked it had lost it’s meaning when she found out that everyone had a duck. She told us how exciting it was to read to more than 12 people.

Her first poem ‘If you didn’t get the invite, this is the invite’ she asked, who worked in the arts and spoke about how it can be a bit exclusive, so she wanted to invite us all in. Our audience participation was giving the finger up during a line about “a finger up”. ‘My Girlfriend’s Dog’ was a funny one about Grace’s dog.

Did we do dry January? Not many and someone was like “fuck off”. 😀 She talked about turning fourty and not reassessing her life then, but a year later. Before ‘Pylons’ she asked who was in love and a couple answered, who had been together 30 years. It was funny, because their kid was there as well and joked they hoped it was real love. ‘You’re Alright’ was my favorite and her set ended with ‘Whatever you’ve got’ a poem about wanting to be close to people again after the long pandemic. It was the perfect ending to her set.

Setlist

If You Didn’t Get The Invite, This Is The Invite
My Girlfriend’s Dog
Dry January
Pylons
You’re Alright
Whatever You’ve Got

During the break, I chatted with the people around me and learned that some of them had already been to a few concerts on this tour. I hear you! Soon enough, Grace was up and we cheered for her loudly. After telling us how happy she was to be back in Exeter and thanking Gabi and Molly, she asked us if we were feeling patriotic. Nobody did and she was like “Yeah, me too,” then kicked off the show with ‘The Best Country in the World’. I was already smiling hugely and sang along as best as I could, feeling a bit like a fraud, because everyone else did it so much better.

The band was in great form and I loved hearing them play again. Grace introduced all of them and we cheered. Had we heard the new record? Hell yeah. ‘The House always wins’ was written after reading that in the month after leaving the office of Prime Minister, Boris Johnson made a million pounds from after dinner speeches. Sounds like a rigged system indeed and we were all ready for some loud audience participation. What a great song!

Grace got a duck too and told us she recognized some of us from other gigs of the tour and joked “I don’t know who let you in again!”. For everyone else she explained how ‘Build something better’ is a concept album around the question “Am I clinically depressed or do I just live in England?” Turns out, it can be both. A great version of ‘Start again’ followed. The songs sound great on the record, but even better live. 🙂

She talked about the album’s cart entry and feeling lucky about being independent. If we didn’t have independent musicians everyone would end up sounding like what she talks about ‘We’ve got an Office in Hackney’. I love that song and can barely get through it without crying. It was so much fun to singalong to every word. “Save me from my loneliness tonight.” I know why I like independent musicians. <3

‘Storm to Weather’ was another opportunity to sing along. I love it, when everyone in the room shouts out every word. Afterwards, Grace joked about how she has been writing protest songs for 14 years and things have only gotten worse since. Then she got more serious, while talking about abortion rights and fighting the same kind of battles our mothers have already fought. It all led to ‘Meanwhile in Texas’, which was fantastic.

I was in tears already and ‘Pride’ didn’t make me stop crying. A great song, written after a horrific event. The worse the social climate gets, the more we need to support our community, even if “sometimes it’s like an uphill climb”. ‘King and Country’ then was the third song, bringing me to tears. Crying so much may not sound like fun, but it makes me feel truly connected to the music, when I hear someone sing about the things that make me scared and angry, because it makes me feel less alone and it gives me hope that if everyone in the room feels the same, maybe we can change the world after all.

Grace and Ben played ‘Haul away’ for us. It’s such a beautiful song. 🙂 The rest of the band came back for ‘English Culture’. When Frank Turner first sent her the mix for that song she thought he lost his mind, but in the end it turned out great with the band. It truly is a banger!

Before ‘Cynicism Free’ there was a round of ducks for everyone with a some jokes about it. Were there any Madonna fans in the house? Not many responded and Grace told us to check her out. 😀 It was definitely good to have a happier song at this point. <3 ‘Fixer Upper’ was another hopeful song, even though “I know it will be hard”. Somehow, if we all work together, we will”build something better from the parts”.

There was more singing along for ‘The Losing Side’ and especially for ‘Black Tie’.  That one feels very much like a hymn to me and it very much made me feel connected to everyone around me that night. There is no better song to end the set with. Before the finale Grace thanked the band, the crew and the audience. Soon after they left we had cheered enough to bring them back and they gave us ‘Northbound’. It’s always fun, because the sing along is not on every line and someone will always screw up. 😉 It was a great end to the show.

Setlist

The Best Country In The World
The House Always Wins
Start Again
We’ve Got an Office in Hackney
Storm to Weather
Meanwhile in Texas
Pride
King and Country
Haul away
English Culture
Cynicism Free
Fixer Upper
The Losing Side
Black Tie

Encore:
Northbound

I went to the merch and wanted to buy Gabi’s CD, but it was sold out already. Hanging around for a while, I noticed Grace near the backstage, surrounded by a few people and went to talk to her briefly. She remembered me and asked if it was worth it coming back. Of course! She signed my CD too and we said goodbye “until tomorrow”.

I’ll pick you right back up and start again

Grace Petrie – Club Academy, Manchester; February 24th, 2024

The concert in Manchester was my 3rd Grace Petrie show and went above and beyond all of my expectation. Everything about this concert was perfect, from her wonderful guests, to the amazing band and the setlist, but most of all, it was the audience and the interactions between us and the band. They were on fire and we were there to celebrate every moment. I cried – a lot – and was smiling through my tears all night. It was bloody amazing!

It was a long trip from London to Manchester, due to traffic jams, but eventually the bus got there and I still had lots of time. Got a great vegan meal, went to the venue and sat inside reading for a few hours. I had forgotten that the time on the ticket was doors, not show start. Around 7, more people arrived and gathered in small groups. Usually, at Manchester Academy, the queue is outside, but this time they did not kick us out and checked our tickets at the door to the club – nice. Scored a front row spot and had lovely people around me to chat with before the show. 🙂

We were still talking, when Grace appeared on stage and everyone cheered for her. She asked us to cheer if we had seen her before and then those, for whom it was the first time, then joked that the second group sounded a lot happier. 😀  She then continued that she’d never had a bad gig in Manchester and announced the first support act Amy Thatcher & Francesca Knowles.

Their first track was instrumental with Amy on accordion and Francesca on drums and it was a good start to the evening, but I liked it even better, when they started singing on track two. It was only harmonizing then, but I really enjoyed it and they played a few songs with lyrics too. The first of them, ‘Your Song is true’ was about finding your identity later in life. Overall, I really enjoyed their set. 🙂

Grace was back, telling us we would see them both again in her band and spoke about the shows in Dublin and Belfast with Ben Moss. We learned that she and spoken word artist Molly Naylor had met at a benefit for the labor party and she was up next.

Molly started speaking about her love for art and that it should be an invitation for people, so there was some audience participation too. The first poem was exactly, what she had said, inviting people. I already loved it. Next, she wanted to know if we loved dogs, cats or rejected the binary and loved both, leading up to the poem ‘My girlfriend’s Dog’. It was lovely and funny. She also had one about love and how she figured out that real love was an action, something you choose. All her poems spoke to me and made me curious about her other writing too. Loved everything about her set.

After a short break, Molly came back and asked us to go “absolutely bananas” for Grace Petrie and that we did. The band walked on stage to loud cheers. Grace greeted us and mentioned how the new record is a concept album about how she feels about this country and started with a new song called ‘The best Country in the World’. I didn’t understand all of the words, but it was angry and described everything that is wrong with the UK. After a little initial feedback, the band sounded fantastic and the mood was already great.

She introduced her band and told us that Frank Turner produced her album. “He’s a naughty boy…. When I left his house I recorded a folk record and when he sent it back to me it was a punk record.” 😀 It was time to sing along for current single ‘The House always wins’ and our first try to sing “roll up, roll up” was already so loud, she didn’t think we could do better. People around me were already singing along to every word. It was fantastic. Graces songs move me and they often make me cry, yet they always give me a feeling of hope too. Hope, that one day, we truly will be more and there will be justice in this world.

Fittingly, the next song was about trying to “regain some hope” after the general election, but first she joked that the question of the concept album was “Am I clinically depressed or do I live in England?” So, when asked if ‘Start again’ was about her, her girlfriend answered:”Jeremy Corbyn, I’m afraid.” Again, lots of people sang along and I managed the chorus too, wanting to believe every word. Politics may be different In Germany, but many of the problems are the same and it all comes down to unequal distribution of wealth and power, while blaming those that are already marginalized. So I can certainly relate.

Grace announced they’d do some songs we might know now and then added that might be a bit arrogant to assume we’d only know the older songs. Were we OK? Hell yeah! She spotted a few kids in the audience and asked for their ages and names. Then we all cheered for them. she referred to them as her “pension plan”. 😉 ‘We’ve got an office in Hackney’ was announced as “a song about the music industry” and Grace joked that she had a brief moment with the industry and that was enough. We also learned that 10.000 streams on Spotify earned her very little money. So she advertised for buying music instead of streaming.

‘We’ve got an Office in Hackney’ might have been the first song that made me cry that night, because of the “if there’s a single person out there to who this song something means…” line. That’s exactly what music is all about. If that didn’t bring me to tears, I certainly cried during ‘Storm to Weather’, all while smiling and singing along. <3 It was beautiful.

Grace joked about having started as a protest singer 14 years ago and things only having gotten worse since. Someone yelled “Its not your fault” and she replied that she didn’t believe to have that much power. Then she got more serious and talked about things she saw happening in her lifetime where she feels we are moving backwards and that are scary and one thing that left her heartbroken was the overturning of Roe v. Wade and watching how instead of fighting the real enemy, people so often fight each other. It all lead up to a new song called ‘Meanwhile in Texas’ that summed up the rollback of women’s rights perfectly. ‘Pride’ followed, a song that was written after a hate crime in the US. She told us how she had grown up with accepting parents and being gay didn’t seem hard, but how in recent years the climate has gotten rough and especially bad for the trans community. She’s right, standing by our queer siblings is now more needed than ever. As everyone sang along, I felt a sense of community in that room. And for a moment, there was hope.

She talked about people not being able to pay their energy bills, while energy companies made millions and played us the song ‘King and Country’, just alone on guitar and harmonica. We learned that 70% of the new record are angry protest songs and the other 30% about being in love and happy. ‘if I were to outlive you was a song about all the worries that come with being in love and made us laugh.

Ben joined her on stage again and someone yelled “we love him always as much” and made us laugh. She spoke about things often getting worse when you think they can’t, like when Trump was elected president and suddenly people said out loud what they were ashamed to say before and it poisoned many conversations. She also told us about a trip to the Westbank in 2017 and how she does not feel qualified to speak about Palestine, but believes that the conflict between Jewish and Palestinian people stems from white supremacy and that they were collecting for medical aid for Palestine. You build a wall made me cry again and I don’t think I was the only one, who felt it.

For the upcoming love song, Ben was supposed to play a “Hot girl tambourine” as Grace put it and spontaneously the audience yelled “Hot girl Ben! Hot girl Ben!” Her reply “this is my favorite thing that has ever happened at a gig.” 😀 Ben seemed somewhat embarrassed. He did give us a tambourine solo though. 😀 When she asked if there were any Madonna fans in, the reply wasn’t loud enough, so she asked again. Next was ‘Cynicism free, “a song about believing in love for the first time.” It was a really happy one.

Grace then spoke about the house she and Molly had just bought and how it needs work. Speaking to other pople her age, she learned that everyone is overwhelmed, but feels we can all make it. The song about this was ‘Fixer Upper’, sung without a guitar and including a great call and response. We sounded nervous when we first tried, but managed just fine. Next was ‘The Losing Side’ about “trying to keep the faith” and we got a wonderful sing-along going. Grace thanked the band and crew before the main set ended on ‘Black Tie’ and once again everyone sang along to every word, especially loud on “… were a patriarchal structure.”

They left and we cheered loudly until they walked back on stage. We learned that they were running late and thus, came back quickly. Grace told us how she was nervous about playing the next one live until she rehearsed it with the band and they did an incredible job with it. The song was called ‘English Culture’ and sounded amazing. The grand finale was ‘Northbound’, where the sing along is only on every other line of the chorus and we still did it perfectly. 😉 Always a great song to end a show. Once more, we cheered for everyone and then it was over. What a fantastic concert that was!

After stopping by the merch stand I headed upstair, where Grace waited for us in the lobby. There was a long line and she took her time talking to everyone, making connections and signing stuff. When it was my turn I told her I’d traveled from Germany and she asked if she could hug me. “Yes, please” I replied. It was awesome. We chatted a little more about how I’d come by he music and how amazing the show had been. Then she signed my ticket and we got a picture too. I really needed a drink, so I went to the bar in the same building and when I left way after midnight, Grace was still talking to fans. It was lovely. This definitely wont have been the last concert for me.

Setlist

The Best Country In The World
The House Always Wins
Start Again
We’ve Got an Office in Hackney
Storm to Weather
Meanwhile in Texas
Pride
King and Country
If I Were to Outlive You
You Build a Wall
Cynicism Free
Fixer Upper
The Losing Side
Black Tie

Encore:
English Culture
Northbound